What happened? Many times, life gets in the way and causes this lack of communication. It could be work, finances, or other family troubles. The key to getting your relationship, and your sex life, back on the right track is making sure that you actually talk with your partner. Talk about your problems, talk about the things you enjoy, and simply open the lines of communication. Remember the things you loved about the person in the beginning. Talk about the things that you can do to improve your relationship too, such as taking some time to have a romantic getaway or add some spicy sex toys to the bedroom.
Taking a Romantic Vacation
Is there anything quite like vacation sex? You and your partner are in a new place with new surroundings. The troubles of work and daily life are just a memory, and you are finally able to relax. Everything is right in the world. When you have sex on vacation, it's incredible because you don't have the same stress that you normally do. It is reason enough to start planning your next romantic vacation.
The first step is choosing where you want to go for your romantic getaway. You could take a cruise, head to a beach resort, go to the mountains, or even book a hotel in your own town for a weekend away from your home if you like. Once you know where you want to go, it's time to start planning the itinerary. Always plan for romance. Get a room with a view, plan some romantic dinners, and find a place where you can take a romantic stroll. Here's the best piece of advice to take: don't plan too many excursions and activities. Plan a few, naturally, but make sure you leave plenty of free time so you can really take advantage of the nice room you have!